life

  • This will most probably be very controversial. Here goes. Ladies take advice from a 51 year old grumpy military veteran with a dad bod. Us guys don’t work on hints. If you want us to do something ask us directly. e.g. The bedroom needs to be painted. This is the way to go “Darling/Dear or…

  • I sometimes wonder what people’s idea of unconditional love is. Let me rephrase that. My idea of unconditional love is. I love you irrespective how you love me if you can’t love me the way I want to be loved but I know you love me and you treat me right and you give me…

  • True love is a myth perpetuated in Hollywood. And so it ends almos 8 years of love, laughter and fun. You came into my life when I was at my lowest of lows and you showed me how to live but more importantly how to love again. We had our challenges and that made us…

  • I am a Military Veteran and Combat Medic. I served in the South African Defence Force from 1993 to 2005. And in the Emergency Medical Services until 2021 I still remember to first person I saw die and that is 32 years later. He was an unknown gentleman who lost a head on collision with…

  • I was asked once in 2019 what my favorite Katy Perry song is. The person that asked me was the woman I was dating at that time in my life. My reply was “The one that got away”. Immediately I was asked why that song and who was the one that got away. I just…