I’m an Aquarius, by nature we are closet romantics, we believe in love at first sight, conversations across crowded rooms with our eyes, sitting in silence for hours on end, and in the end having a wonderful conversation without a word being said.

We sacrifice all, not expecting anything in return but a kind word now and then. We love whole heartedly and with everything inside us. When we say “I love you” we mean it.

We don’t talk about our feelings, we tend to bottle up. We hide our hurts, and cry in secret when no one is around.

I am a Christian. No let me rephrase that I am a blood bought spirit filled son of the Living God

I realised that I have been having the wrong priorities in my relationships.

I’ve realised that in my next relationship I’ll want someone that will fight with me and fight for me and I’ll do the same. That bare knuckled drag em out beat them down fight that you get into if your very existence depends on it.

I also realised that if our foundation is not on Christ it will not work out in the end.

All I am looking for now are the following;

i. She must love God more than she loves me

ii. She must be willing to pray for me and with me

iii. Call me out on my crap

I know that there is someone awe inspiring waiting for me and I’m not rushing things, when God takes you on a journey it doesn’t help you trying to rush the process. He WILL finish the work that He started in you and He is the great I AM not I was or I will be, He is constant and He is good.

I have been thanking Him for who He is preparing to send into my life. I do realise that she will enter my life at the right time. She is in my future.

To her I say

I will love you as Christ loved the church laying His life down for her, I will make you the second most important person in my life. God being the first.