I sometimes wonder what people’s idea of unconditional love is. Let me rephrase that. My idea of unconditional love is. I love you irrespective how you love me if you can’t love me the way I want to be loved but I know you love me and you treat me right and you give me the most important place in your life I will love you back.

But if but it seems that most people don’t have that idea or concept of unconditional love for them it is as long as you love me the way I want to be loved I will love you back if that stops irrespective of how you love me I will no longer love you.

I was told I did not love her the way she wanted to be loved, and that I cannot be taught how to love her correctly. What happened to communication? What happened to telling me how you want to be loved?

I have just come out an 8 year relationship and it hurts. I do struggle with my emotions that are all over the place most of the time sometimes the black dog comes and barks at my heels and I have just decided that the next person that I love or allow into my life will really have to prove that she understands the concept of unconditional love.

I saw this meme and it is so true. It said “Everybody is looking for runconditional love but everybody comes with a bag full of conditions”